Why you should be saying "Happy Holidays" instead of "Merry Christmas"

Tis' the season for North American traditionalists to get their panties in a wad over the term 'Happy Holidays'.

You will see an inundation of Facebook and Twitter posters saying things like, "let's keep the Christ in Christmas", and other disparaging remarks about how they are going to say 'Merry Christmas', no matter what (like it is the new Crusade), instead of a non-denominational, "Happy Holidays"...mind you, many of these people are the same who believe that more guns are needed to kill terrorists, racism does not exist, and that Donald Trump as actually not a bad candidate for United States Presidency.

Well, I'm here to tell you to give your ignorant head a shake! December and January are meaningful months around the world, and Christianity does not have a monopoly on their significance. To follow is a (non-comprehensive) list to illustrate dates of importance to other cultures:

Bohdi Day (Buddhism, 500BC) - Dec 8 - A Buddhist holiday that commemorates the day that the historical Buddha experienced enlightenment. According to tradition, Siddhartha had recently forsaken years of extreme ascetic practices and resolved to sit under a Peepul tree and simply meditate until he found the root of suffering, and how to liberate oneself from it. 

Pancha Ganapati (Hinduism, 3000BC) - Dec 21-25 - A modern five-day Hindu festival celebrated in honour of Lord Ganesha, Patron of Arts and Guardian of Culture. During each of the five days of Pancha Ganapati, the entire family focus on a special spiritual discipline.

Lori (Sikhism, 1500AD) - Dec 21 - A popular Punjabi festival that commemorates the passing of the winter solstice, as Lori was originally celebrated on winter solstice day, being the shortest day and the longest night of the year.

Mawlid An-Nabi (Islam, 600AD) - Dec 23/28 - The observance of the birthday of the Islamic Prophet Muhammed, which is celebrated often on the 12th day of Rabi' al-awwal, the third month in the Islamic calendar:

Hanukkah (Judaism, 1300BC) - Nov/Dec - A Jewish holiday commemorating the rededication of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem. Hanukkah is observed for eight nights and days, starting on the 25th day of Kislev, according to the Hebrew calendar, which may occur at any time from late November to late December in the Gregorian calendar.

Kwanzaa (1966AD) - Dec 26-Jan 1 - A week-long celebration held in the United States and in other nations of the Western African diaspora in the Americas. The celebration honours African heritage in African- American culture, and is observed from December 26 to January 1, culminating in a feast and gift-giving.

The point of this post is not to disparage Christianity. It is to get those of you who make closed-minded posts about the significance of this time of the year, to open your eyes and understand the exclusionary nature of comments directed towards promoting a "Christmas Only" ideology. Exclusion is the first step in ignorance, and ignorance breeds hate.


If you still feel the need to illustrate to everyone on social media that you wish to oppose all cultural values that are not your own, then to quote one of the all-time great Christmas movies, I say to you, "Merry Christmas you filthy animal...and a Happy New Year."

@BrendanRolfe


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Guns = Racism

The 2nd Amendment is the 1st problem

It is at the heart of how the United States has run its country for decades, it is systemic, and is so engrained in US culture, that it is second nature.

FEAR

Why do you own a gun? To protect yourself. From what? From other people with guns.

While I suppose it shouldn't surprise me, I always find myself flabbergasted by proponents of guns who say, 'but if the victims had been armed at the time, these mass shootings wouldn't have happened' (as has been the case in the latest San Bernardino, CA, shooting).

But it goes much deeper than arming the masses. Really, what you are doing is blaming the victim. When a woman is raped, people will say, yes, it's terrible but she was dressed provocatively and attracted that kind of attention. When an African American child is shot by a police officer while playing with a toy gun in the park, people say, yes it's terrible but he shouldn't have been waving the toy gun around in public, where are his parents? When a Muslim teen brings a clock that he built to school and the teacher calls the police, people say, yes it's terrible but he should have known better given the state of the world. That is a very telling BUT, and reveals the character of the person you are talking to. When you blame the victim, you alleviate the burden of responsibility from society.

SYSTEMIC FEAR

Systemic fear is dangerous. To steal a line from Hollywood, "[a] person is smart. People are dumb, panicky, dangerous animals and you know it. Fifteen hundred years ago everybody knew the Earth was the center of the universe. Five hundred years ago, everybody knew the Earth was flat.... Imagine what you'll know tomorrow." The reality is that you only "know" what you are taught: Muslims are terrorists, the black man on the corner is selling dope, you have the right to bear arms. What you know is fear, and what you're taught is discrimination.

Fear thy enemy, fear thy neighbour

US citizens are taught to fear. Fear is the easiest way to control a population. If it's not terrorists it's Ebola, it it's not nukes from North Korea it's Anthrax in your mail. The only way to combat fear? Knowledge. But not knowledge in the form of information. No matter how many facts and how much science is presented to you, if your beliefs are deeply engrained within you, your mind cannot truly be converted. This knowledge needs to be a deeper understanding of who you are and what your place is in the world. That starts at home, and that starts with you.

CHANGE

Stop fear. Open you mind, open your eyes, and open your heart. Realize that in North America you do not live in a "kill or be killed" society. And for God's sake realize that change is needed in the United States. You have more guns than people. The second amendment enshrines the distrust, fear and ignorance that is at the heart of racism, and in the hearts of a gun-toting, corn eating, flag waving population in the most powerful country in the world.

Do the right thing. Amend your amendment.

@BrendanRolfe


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